Children need our attention and care. Kids crave to be desired. They not only need us, but they want us to need them. How to show your child that he is an important part of the family that he heard from him are to his opinion listen? Through joint activities. How do you start and, most importantly, how to interest the child? Prepare the necessary materials, sit at the table and call the kid. Although, I'm sure seeing your cooking, running with joy and solemnity, he escaped himself! Say: "I so want to make a gift to my father (mother, grandmother, grandfather, or a frame for our favorite pictures, or anything else – no matter!), But I'm afraid I can not manage itself. Who would help me? (Or 'Oh, if I helped someone ').
'I'll help! " – Yells the kid. And you with enormous enthusiasm, says: "That's great! Without you I would not right! " Now imagine that a child who is so often reproached that he had something spilled or broken, soiled or broken a new toy, the child asked to help! Hence, we need it, so he knows something, then, without adults do not cope! This is a huge incentive, trust me. Now prepare a place for your baby. Better that he sat next to so it was convenient. (My daughter was sitting at 2.6 years, during our joint creativity on the table, the same place where we worked.) Of course, laundry cleaning afterwards no end, but it sure is worth it! Several helpful hints. Difficult job to do yourself.
Let your child do what he can, he can. If you see that interest in the baby became weak at least for a bit, stop a lesson and find him another. ('Oh, how you've done a lot! Help Now me. Look well whether I did it? ") Does not take long crafts. I understand that when you begin, I want to finish, but try to prolong the pleasure. Return to hack the next day. During operation talking with the baby, telling him what you are doing and why. Think together as you give a gift (or to put a hack). Turn on a light unobtrusive music (I recommend the classics in a special treatment for children). Make sure that the music does not prevent you from talking, thinking. Ask to join the other family members. Make it so that during the no distraction of the child in other pursuits. Ready-made crafts supply at prominently, proudly shows guests and friends for a while take the group in a kindergarten (there will be only too happy). This will be a great incentive for continuing creativity. Many parents are beginning to do something and almost immediately abandoned. In order to prevent this from happening to you, select the day (eg Sunday) and the approximate time and duration of joint activities. Stick to this schedule, and soon your kid will shout: 'Hurrah! Today Sunday! We will do crafts! " And do not forget our main objective – to deliver the child to enjoy!